An Affair to Wake Up To

I remember it so clearly: we had gone for drinks after work, under the guise of it being a wind-down from a busy month-end. But we were the only two there. The chemistry between us was palpable, and to a … Read More

The Blindside

I remember it like it was yesterday – The Blindside. I was putting away groceries in the kitchen and my husband was standing beside me. I don’t actually remember the pre-amble of our conversation, I but I sure remember the … Read More

My Own Relationship Navigator

In online dating, I don’t typically tell men that I am a relationship coach, partially because once you know my first name and that little fact, you can find out A LOT about me, but also because I dread the … Read More

Couple Talk Tuesday – Grow what you want more of

Nookie November is going like gangbusters; there are couples all over the place waking up with me in their inboxes, I get emails from folks making me feel like some sort of Sex Fairy and I get to use all … Read More

Couple Talk Tuesday…from the BEDROOM!

Couple Talk Tuesday returns! Last week was a wash over here, but CTT returns, from the bedroom. Yea. That’s right. You won’t want to miss the verra special invitation at the end…   Happy watching!

Couple Talk Tuesday – Soften Your Start

When we start softly, we get a groovier end. True Story. Next week, I’ll have a perfect (actual) example to share. See how you do with it and don’t be afraid to leave a comment.

Couple Talk Tuesday – WBS Returns

Think it’s all fun n’ games to be single. Yes, it can be – kissing new people, getting to do fun things that aren’t laundry and sitting around watching TV, but there are things missing that the coupled-up folks have. … Read More

Couple Talk Tuesday – A Family Affair

Last week, we talked about flingin’ shame out into the open, and now I want you to look a leeetle more deeply: how can you let your family connection be different for you? What can you share to break down … Read More

Couple Talk Tuesday – Shame Busting

The challenge this week: find out where shame lives and bring it out in the open. I’m sharing a personal (and surprisingly emotional) story to invite you to see what comes out of it. Here’s a hint: it’s not more … Read More

Couple Talk Tuesday – Fall into Fall

It’s fall and it’s time to slow. things. down. And watch videos. And marvel at how Youtube can make me look so incredibly insane EVERY WEEK.