Taking Temperatures

Some days, I feel on top of the world; I get in my run, I hit all my deadlines, I have conversations that matter, I eat salads instead of leftover Christmas chocolate, and I am winning. Other days, I feel … Read More

What’s Enough, Anyway?

Ok, we’re going to talk about SEX. A few weeks ago, I jumped on a call with some clients, and when I asked where they wanted to go in the session, they blurted out: “Sex. We want to talk about … Read More

Sexless Marriage: the slippery slide

Imagine that you have a weekend pass to a huge waterpark. The waterpark has every sort of slide you can imagine, including the straight-shot one that drives your bathing suit into a giant atomic wedgie. You have plans to take … Read More

More (sex/rest/money) please!

I escaped this weekend to a tiny island off the coast of Washington State. We ate some amazing meals, and explored the beach, and looked out at the ocean, and lounged around in hotel bathrobes. It was exactly what I … Read More

Couple Talk Tuesday…from the BEDROOM!

Couple Talk Tuesday returns! Last week was a wash over here, but CTT returns, from the bedroom. Yea. That’s right. You won’t want to miss the verra special invitation at the end…   Happy watching!

Gettin’ Enough?

Yes, I could very well be talking about money, wine or sleep, but it’s Wednesday, and you know what that means: I’m talking about SEX. As I’ve talked about in this space, people feel comfortable talking to me about sex. … Read More

Fantasize about THIS

Oh, fantasies. We all have them.  Sometimes they’re around how we want our mate to ‘be” with us – things we wish they would say, ways we would like to be treated, and words we would like to have spoken … Read More

How Intimate are you?

Oh, did you think this was going to be a Cosmo-type thing where you rate yourself with asinine questions about what side of the bed you sleep on and if you pee with the door open in front of people? … Read More

Permission Granted

My super power (or one of them, at least) is that I grant permission.  Seriously.  I wish it came with a cape and a spandex outfit with a big ‘P’ on the chest because that would be 40 shades of … Read More